i have been contacted by various slaves for advice and in particular some young men who profess to want to be a slave.

i am flattered that these pages have affected this contact, but also concerned that the novice or innocent youth gets the right advice. to this end i have decided to offer this section on training (as i see it). it is specifically aimed at the novice in the hope that it might be of some help to the genuine future slave boi so that he can begin to prepare for the day he finds his Master. i am also including some links in the support page.

who is a slave?
we are men who need our lives or a significant part of them in the control of another man, or men. we have a profound need to submit to the will of superior men. we desire to do their bidding, to serve them. we are the willing who make a virtue of submission and service to men we call Master. we are as diverse as the rest of the human race. the common denominator is our willingness to give our bodies and minds to these superior men. we are needed so they can fulfill our destiny and heart's desires.

we are motivated by our sexual need to be controlled by such men, and to offer other services, so that we are useful, desirable and used. our self-fulfullment is their satisfaction in our service to them, or the pleasure we give them. that is our purpose: to serve, give satisfaction & pleasure.

a slave, as opposed to a sub, has a natural propensity to submit. he is not defiant, his nature demands that he submits to the superior male. in training, a good Master will seek feedback from his slave, and the slave must accept the outcome even if the Master chooses a different path. the slave may not resist the will of his Master unless the activity contravenes the contract.

what use is an aggressive, unco-operative, demanding or willful slave? true - there are Masters who want the challenge, to break the spirit of such boiz, but are these boiz true slaves? isn't this just a struggle of wills where the bottom is simply exploring his capacity to challenge, even to dominate? is this boi a slave or a top in training? true, there are boiz whose will, or ego is strong but who have an underlying need for that to be diminished, to be broken in and become enslaved almost like a slave of ancient times.

this role can be interesting for trainer and trainee if they both understand each other's needs and have the mental stamina. but the line between role-playing and training a genuine slave candidate must be clear. the true slave will subordinate all his self to his Master's will.

a true slave boi will understand that he has a deep-seated nature to be dominated. it is not about making the top dominate him to satisfy his ego. it is about his natural urge to submit being encouraged to blossom by eradicating the self.

self-control, self-discipline doesn't enter ito the mind of the willfull boi, he will seek out every opportunity to disobey, challenge, thwart the will of his trainer. like a rebellious slave of old, he resists the chain, perhaps he enjoys punishment and seeks self-gratification through pain and the demonstration of his defiance as if his training was involuntary.

BUT this is NOT about forcing the unwilling into enslavement, this is about allowing the true inner slave boi to emerge, proud of what he is, and of his vocation.