sex and the gay male slave are like salt & pepper

it's what probably motivates us at the beginning. we eventually learn that there's more to it than having sex, but the sexual dynamic between males underpins the Master-slave relationship, even if sex is denied or controlled, it's still about sex.

there's a discussion elsewhere about training up in a sexual routine. this page will be concerned about sexuality rather than fucking, sucking, SM, bondage and all the other related stuff.

the slave's sexuality is perhaps the most complex. he is willing to give his body and expects nothing in return. simply being available whether for sex or to make dinner, iron clothes, make beds is satisfaction enough. it's what he bought into.

there are others for whom being used sexually involves variations between being treated like a slut, a toilet, wearing permanently welded restraints, living in a cage or cell, all extremes of pain, body modification, even castration & nullification.

it's essential that the would-be slave is clear about his desires and the reality: sometimes you get what you wish for ...