i'm really turned on by allowing a significant aspect of my life to be controlled by another man, a Master. the Master owns that part of me, but not others:

i have a life with a long-term partner, family, friends & professional commitments as well. These are acknowledged, but irrelevant to the Master/slave relationship. so, if i want my sexuality to be controlled as a slave's how would i make this happen 24/7 in daily life as well?

then i found a new type of Master. one who can control all the issues and provide all the solutions.

this Master maintains virtual ownership and control of all my affairs, while permitting use of me by other, vetted Masters to ensure there is real-time use made of his property.

as a symbol and constant visible reminder to me and anyone that knows its meaning, i wear his stainless steel collars locked around my neck.

when i am sent to serve real-time Masters, i wear the small collar for the real-time masters in order to be replaced - if they wish - with their own collar to mark their ownership of me during their custodianship. afterwards, it is replaced and i am returned to the custody of the virtual slave Master.

there are two types: the one illustrated below is a thin circle that is comfortable to wear under street clothing, a shirt & tie for example, and which is locked on me when i have to engage with the regular public.

not me btw!

the other type is a specially designed & fitted slave collar with a ring as shown below, larger and heavier than the one above.

this is a 40 mm wide, stainless steel collar with ring. this is my normal default slave collar.

this is locked around my neck when i am not in the custody of real-time Masters: in other words at home, or when i am training slaves sent to me by the virtual master or real-time Masters, or not attending real-time Masters in public such as fetish or SM events.

its mass and weight remind me of my status as an owned slave in both real and virtual time.

this is a serious slave collar, i feel its weight and closeness around my throat radiating heat from my body.

unlike the light neck band, i cannot forget that this is locked around my neck

- i know i am a slave at all times - i am never uncollared...

by giving up to a Master, the most personal and imperative part of being a gay man - freedom to ejaculate, i grasped that i could bring the slave relationship into the day-to-day world.

i realised that this 24/7 chastity in effect would make me a total slave in ways that are in reality more trying and profound because of their consequences in day-to-day life.

at work, a club, meeting friends, while in enforced chastity, my cock is imprisoned. i must squat to piss, i no longer use the urinals

instead of the day-to-day world being the dominant factor around which the Master/slave relationship has to be accommodated, the reverse can be true

- it is possible to become a 24/7 slave in the real world by virtue of enforced chastity

a Master's control is at a distance but absolute in this respect.

- and you know it is real!

i no longer fret about finding sex; the urge to masturbate and ejaculate is no longer relevant - i cannot. sexual relief is channelled in other, exciting ways ...

my cock and balls are safely locked away until my Masters (or partner) wish to use to them for their pleasure. my pleasure is the constant arousal without prospect of self-relief. ejaculation is a gift from my Master (or partner), not to be taken for granted which is real ecstatic sexual high.

Caveats

i say 24/7 not 365, because the relationship does not extend over the relationship with my partner. he too has rights and expectations.

there are other times when the device must be removed and kept off - holidays and travel for example, or when sick.

the regime is maintained at all other times and aim to achieve a state of consistency with keys always in the possession of the keyholders